Confidence For the Rest of Us — 4 Much Needed Alternatives to ‘Fake It Til You Make It’
4 Much More Attainable Ways to Make it (Other than Faking It)
I hate to break it to whoever invented “fake it til you make it,” but for the most part, it sucks.
People do not like being lied to.
Yes, stories are great. Embellishments are fun.
But you know what’s super sexy?
Honesty. And vulnerability. And relatability.
All these things are massively undermined when someone straight-up lies about whether they’re up to the task.
And that’s just the present tense.
That’s not even taking into consideration what exactly that person thinks they’ll do when they’ve quote-unquote made it.
Suddenly stop faking it? Let the world see them for reals?
I’m pretty sure it doesn’t work like that.
It’s a terrifying prospect to get so far through life, perhaps even all the way to that elusive massive success, to then have to reveal yourself as some kind of areshole that was masquerading as… well, something more palatable. Something competent (when you weren’t).